One of the most challenging and essential parts of our life is marriage. If we can follow some simple and small tips then our marriage life can be Colorful.
1. Be Realistic: What is your thinking about your marriage life? You have to be realistic and should leave all the imagination. Because real like and dream life is not same. So you have to think that what can happen in real life and should try to prepare yourself in according to your real life. This is a major cause of turmoil in marriage life unreal, illusory expectations. Because in real life when our dream will not be fulfilled then we feel pain and hurtled a lot. A person never be perfect 100% and that’s why you will never be 100% satisfied. A person never think of you all day. That’s why for becoming happy you have to be realistic. The successful couple always finds out romantic mode in their daily life.
2. Who you will marry: If you marry a person just by seeing his/her outside beauty then you will done wrong. But realistic is that you have to find out his/her character and activates. How gentle the person and how active or industrious the person. Also some people think that love marriage can be happier but it is not true always. Love generally depends up the physical attraction to each another. For happy marriage life you have to get a good person, honest man and trustable man. The ideal marriage is only formed when both husband and wife are entitled to the same values and perspectives. Before the wedding so that the person you are trying to find out everything possible about him. That’s why before the wedding you have to find out everything possible about him with whom you are going to make the relationship. If you get any negative, information then must make a judgement about the information and then take the decision.
3. Parents bless: You can leave the relation with your parents family but without they bless you will never be happy and that is why you have to take their bless by maintaining everything.
4. Keep your marriage events as much as cheap: Nowadays spending too much money on marriage events becoming a tradition but you have to control yourself in this issue. Because in such temporary events can make both of the family sufferers due to extra costs of money.
5. Try to understand your partner: One of the main problems In the marriage life is the misunderstanding. You have to try to understand your partner from every side. If you can then your marriage life will be colorful.
6. Be pro-active: You have to be pro-active about the weakness of your partner. Your partner can have some bad side or weakness but you have to take these sides easily and if you will not able to take then you will never be happy in your marriage life.
A. Take your partner completely: You have to take your partner completely.
B. Keep him away from others.
C. Never make compare your partner with others
D. Always show admire to your partner good works.
E. Forget your past
F. Try to live with present.
G. Be expert to handle your financial issue.
H. From first, inform your main earning to your partner.
7. Give time to your family: You have to give time to your family as much as you can. In such time will make your relationship with your partner stronger.